Frequently asked questions

You arrive, grab a drink, and meet your host. The event is divided into rounds — typically 5 to 7 minutes each. One group rotates while the other stays seated, so everyone meets everyone. After each round you mark your match card. At the end of the night, mutual matches are shared. It's more relaxed than it sounds, and most people leave having had at least a handful of genuinely good conversations.

Smart casual is the sweet spot — you want to feel like yourself, not overdressed or underdressed. Think a nice outfit you'd wear to a good bar with friends. The venues are upscale but relaxed. First impressions matter at speed dating, so put a little thought into it, but don't stress.

Matches are great, but they're not the only measure of a good night. Many of our regulars come back because the events are simply fun — good conversation, a great venue, and a room full of interesting people. Not every night produces a match, and that's okay. The more events you attend, the more comfortable and successful you'll get.

Absolutely — and most people do. Coming alone is actually an advantage at speed dating because you're fully present and not splitting your attention. Our hosts make sure everyone feels welcome from the moment they walk in. You will not be the only person there by yourself.

At most events you'll use our digital match cards: scan the QR code, then give each date a thumbs up or down (or "just friends") on your phone. Your answers are private. When you and someone both say yes, it's a match, and you'll see the contact details they chose to share right on your phone. We also email you your matches after the event. Only mutual matches are revealed — if you marked someone as a yes but they didn't mark you, they won't be notified. Privacy is protected both ways.

Only your first name and last initial during the game. After you match, they see just what you chose to share: your phone number, email and/or a social media handle. You pick these when you join the game, and you can change them during the event. No one ever sees how you rated them.

A simple way to plan a date with someone you met at a Mingle event. Sign in at mingledenver.com/dating.html with a code we email you, see your speed dating matches, choose who can ask you out, and send or accept date requests. You can accept, decline or suggest a different time or place. Your email is only shared when you both agree to a date.

It varies by event type. Many of our Mingle New Friends events (Taco Tuesdays, Game Nights, Happy Hours) are free to attend — you just pay for your own food and drinks. Speed dating and VIP events typically range from $25 to $45. Free events don't require a ticket but we recommend RSVPing so we can plan for numbers.

Most events sell tickets right here on mingledenver.com, and many are also on Eventbrite, Meetup or Partiful. Each event listing on our site and calendar shows where to get tickets. Some events sell out, so we recommend not waiting until the last minute for popular nights like speed dating.

Unless otherwise stated, refunds are sent automatically if an event is rescheduled or canceled. If your plans change, you can request a refund up to 48 hours before the event: contact us through the form on our website, or message the host if you booked on Meetup or Eventbrite. Within 48 hours of the event, refunds aren't available, but you can request a credit toward a future event.

Yes: your 5th event is on us. After every 4 Mingle events you buy or RSVP to on mingledenver.com, we email you a code for one free ticket to a future event. The code works once, only with your email, and covers one ticket (add-ons not included). Tickets from Eventbrite, Meetup or Partiful don't count toward it.

Only if you say it's OK. When you add a mobile number at checkout, you can check "OK to text" to hear from us by text about that event and future Mingle events. Just reply STOP or ask us to stop anytime.

After an event, we'll email you a quick "How was it?" with stars to tap. If you allow it, we may show your review on our website with your first name and last initial.

GA tickets give you access to the event. VIP tickets typically include priority seating or entry, a smaller more curated crowd, and occasionally a welcome drink. VIP events are specifically designed for people who want a more intentional, elevated experience. Both options are listed clearly on each event page.

Yes — we're always looking for great Denver venues to partner with. We bring the guests, you provide the space and hospitality. It's a strong arrangement for both sides. Reach out through our contact page and mention venue partnership.

We offer a range of sponsorship options — from single event sponsorships to annual presenting partnerships. Visit our Become a Sponsor page to learn more and submit an inquiry.

Yes, we'd love your help! At our larger events, volunteers help check guests in and greet people as they arrive. See open volunteer shifts and sign up at mingledenver.com/volunteer. If no shifts are open right now, you can join our volunteer list and we'll email you when new shifts open.